Dealing with Disappointments

PROTIPS - November 10, 2016
By Maloi Malibiran-Salumbides

Kapag mayroon kang inasahan at hindi ito nangyari, ano ang iyong mararamdaman? Unmet expectations almost always result to disappointments. Mayroong aplikante sa kumpanya ninyo na sa tingin mo ay mahusay at puno ng potential. Pero nang inyo ng i-hire, naku, ubod pala ng tamad. Mahusay lang magsalita pero kulang na kulang sa gawa. Disappointing hindi ba? How can we best deal with disappointments in our work and our lives?

Magandang araw, ako si Maloi Malibiran-Salumbides para sa Protips, partner mo sa inspiradong trabaho at negosyong umaasenso.

Maraming pagkakataon, madidisappoint tayo sa tao, sa ating trabaho, at sa mga pangyayari sa paligid natin. And when this happens, it is always good to turn to God and His word to find hope and encouragement. If your plans and expectations didn't materialize as you wanted, know that there is a God-ordained purpose behind it. How should we handle disappointments?

1) Continue to trust. Ang sabi sa Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope". Patuloy mong panghawakan ang Salita at pangako ng Diyos dahil kahit ano pa ang nangyayari sa paligid mo, tiyak na ang sinabi ng Diyos ay hindi magbabago. Disappointing events in your life and career do not mean a cancellation of God's good plans for you. Patuloy kang magtiwala.

2) Continue to hope. Kung may pagsubok ka ngayon diyan sa iyong trabaho, tignan mo ang problemang iyan bilang bahagi ng sinasabi sa Romans 8:28, "And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose." Hindi lamang ang magandang pangyayari sa trabaho at negosyo mo ang sakop ng kakayahan at kapangyarihan ng Diyos. Even the disappointing events in your life are within His control at kahit ang mga ito ay gagamitin ng Diyos para magbunga ng kaayusan, kabutihan at kagandahan sa takbo ng buhay mo.

3) Continue to pray. Kung nababagabag ka at puno ng pag-aalala ngayon, balikan mo ang sinasabi sa Philippians 4:6-7, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Disappointments remind us of our need to depend on God and to call on Him. Maraming bagay sa buhay mo ang labas sa kaya mong i-control. But all these are within God's control. Kapag ikaw ay discouraged at disappointed sa Diyos lumapit. Sa Kanya tayo tumawag.

Continue to trust, continue to hope, continue to pray. People will disappoint us but God won't.

BE A BLESSING IN THE WORKPLACE TODAY!

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